૦૧/૦૭/૨૦૧૭..(૪૧)...BEST STORY THAT WILL MAKE YOU CRY
સંકલિત...... ચિત્ર સૌજન્ય:ઈન્ટરનેટ....
સંકલિત...... ચિત્ર સૌજન્ય:ઈન્ટરનેટ....
One young man went to apply for a managerial
position in a big company. He passed the initial interview, and now would meet
the director for the final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the
youth's academic achievements were excellent. He asked, "Did you obtain
any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no".
“Was it your father who paid for your school
fees?"
"My father passed away when I was one
year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.” he replied.
“Where did your mother work?"
"My mother worked as clothes cleaner.”
The director requested the youth to show his
hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
“Have you ever helped your mother wash the
clothes before?"
"Never, my mother always wanted me to
study and read more books. Besides, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request.
When you go home today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me
tomorrow morning.
The youth felt that his chance of landing the
job was high. When he went back home, he asked his mother to let him clean her
hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her
hands to her son.
The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly.
His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his
mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands.
Some bruises were so painful that his mother winced when he touched it.
This was the first time the youth realized
that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him
to pay the school fees. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that
the mother had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future.
After cleaning his mother hands, the youth
quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.
That night, mother and son talked for a very
long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the
director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's
eyes, when he asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned
yesterday in your house?"
The youth answered," I cleaned my
mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'
“I know now what appreciation is. Without my
mother, I would not be who I am today. By helping my mother, only now do I
realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own. And I
have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one’s family.
The director said, "This is what I am
looking for in a manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the
help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done,
and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.”
“You are hired.”
This young person worked very hard, and
received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and
worked as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.
A child, who has been protected and
habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop an "entitlement
mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his
parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen
to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of
his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may
be good academically, they may be successful for a while, but eventually they
would not feel a sense of achievement. They will grumble and be full of hatred
and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really
showing love or are we destroying our children instead?
You can let your child live in a big house,
eat a good meal, learn piano, watch on a big screen TV. But when you are
cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their
plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because
you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them
in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents
are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young
person. The most important thing is your child learns how to appreciate the
effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others
to get things done.
સંકલિત.....
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